Porc Therapy 082: Relationship Agreements

Stephanie and Mike talk about whatever issues or questions you have. This episode’s question(s):

Since the last time we spoke at Porcfest, I’ve developed a better understanding of why I tend to avoid relationship agreements, and I’d like to ask a related Porc Therapy question.  Here it is.  In order to have trust in a relationship, it’s important to have a clear understanding of each other’s wishes and expectations.  Making assumptions can be hazardous, especially if a relationship is nontraditional in some way. But on the other hand, agreements can have a legal character, and presenting a partner with a proposed agreement tends to imply a lack of trust.  I wouldn’t even be considering an agreement if I didn’t trust my partner already.  So what I’d like to know from you guys is what are some ways to communicate expectations without putting people off? Thanks a lot, and I really appreciate all the work you’re doing on Porc Therapy!

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